hey you know something that's Good? when you hug a girl and then you separate but not fully, and your arms are still around her and your hands are resting gently on the softness of her hips and you can stare into her eyes and then you pull her waist to yours........
it might not actually be homophobic that i can't live off of cherries and mashed potatoes, but it definitely feels like it
message to wlw / nblw [esp. questioning]:
hey!! if you aren't often attracted to traditionally feminine women / the typical heteropatriarchal model of a woman, that is okay. if you find yourself most attracted to gnc / butch / masculine-of-center / etc. women/nbs, that does not mean you're "straight in denial" or "lying" or "faking" or "secretly into men" or anything.
it just means that you are often attracted to a specific kind of person and that is okay. ♥
just went on tumblr and saw a post which essentially said "men's rights!!!!!!111!" under the guise of being super woke
y'all i can't even explain how bad of a take it was,,,,,
it said basically "feminism is bad actually" and "men experience more sexual assault than women!1!" (??????) and that someone was wrong for discussing how women are made to fear the smallest of things (walking at night, etc) due to constant *male violence
you are not woke !!!! you have looped back around to conservatism !!!!! wtf !!!!!!
(* obviously here i mean predominantly white & cishet men)
feminism is Bad is the COLDEST take ive seen lately
anyway the moral of the story is waterfall is much better ❤❤❤
i literally have no idea why ppl try so hard to police / doubt trans ppl's identities ? ? ?
as soon as someone informs me what their gender is i cannot see them as anything else
like, trans guys? you have Just As Much masculine/male "energy" as cis men, i just like you Way More because you're not total cis nightmares
ditto for trans girls.......
nb folks? y'all are so profoundly neither male nor female it baffles my mind to think of u as anything else
if u dont know what ur gender is / you don't have one? WOW u are a genderless / gender-scrambling cryptid and i love you and also cannot see you in any other way
and, like ...... if ur gender identity changes? SURPRISE my brain automatically switches to seeing you in the new way/s !!!
and this isn't??? even a good trait of mine or anything im doing right??? it's just how u are.......because.....you are that
you are......what you are......i just, i can't even make it work in my brain to see u as anything other than what u are, it's like trying to fold paper in half 7+ times
this is a callout post for mlm / nblm
y'all are just Too Lovely, you need to register all that excellence
any of the wlw ask numbers that you’ve not answered yet? 💖😚
i'll answer #1! :0
honestly, it took me ,,, a really long time
for many years i tried to force crushes on boys; for some more years i knew something was off but was not sure what it was; and for some years i flirted (no pun intended) with the concept of being gay or something other than cishet (shoutout to me thinking i was trans, then ace,,,), until finally, about a year or two ago, i found cameron esposito's twitter through joseph fink of wtnv's twitter. and from there it was all over! i found autostraddle, i agonizingly googled "am i gay" quizzes and "how to tell if you're gay" and "how do you know if you're a lesbian", i spent days just mustering the courage to open the incognito tab and type it in,,,,but things built on themselves and ive come out to select family members, i cut my hair short as i wanted it to be, i started dressing dapper, i started talking about being gay online & irl, and it's amazing and im so thankful
(also i want a gf)
ty for the ask ♥♥
serendipity and hiraeth ?? 😗
already answered serendipity but!
hiraeth: home is extremely important to me; i would likely be in an extremely fragile mental state if i did not have as good of a home as i do, and im very grateful for that
to me, home is a place of utmost comfort, safety, and peace. nothing more and nothing less. wherever you can be that brings you the pinnacle of tranquility, of comfort, and of security: that is home, and maybe it's the ocd talking, but imo it's like ,,, one of most important things in the world to seek out
ty very much for the ask ♥♥
on all levels except physical, i am walking up a grass hill with a bouquet of flowers and a picnic basket to court a beautiful lady at the top
butch mood of the day is attending a wedding & looking dapper as heck but being jealous of the groom
currently, the book i'm working on is the shadow of death by james runcie! i love mysteries and sidney is 100% adorable. i already bought the sequel and i'm not even halfway through the first one...i'm so happy there's so many works in the series, plus the prequel. ♥
what about you?