Balsam and coconut?
coconut: someone kissed me + asked me out!!! a WONDERFUL surprise but a very big one!!! i'm still shook lmao...they're really cute tho :'3c
balsam: a walk on a fall day, a stop at a bookstore or a wander through the woods, then a nice meal and relaxation w cozy blankets as there's wind + rain outside...a girl to cuddle with is optional but preferred ♥♥♥♥
thank you for the ask!!
linen and bonfire :3c
linen: i have a lot of stuff like this that goes beyond just 'quirks' bc i have OCD...however!! one thing that people definitely dont seem to understand is that i CANNOT tolerate true crime documentaries. like, the sound of a program such as 20/20 or frontline or something??? if someone around me is watching it i HAVE to leave or listen to something else because it'll send me into a panic attack. i have no idea why but it's. it's definitely a thing oof
bonfire: YES!! incredibly so...i am constantly down to cuddle and actually i just cuddled w someone for like. over an hour. and im still wanting more ldjfgldfkjg
im very cuddy and touch-starved :'3c
thank you so much for the ask! ♥♥
peppermint and citrus for the ask meme!
peppermint: unfortunately yes!! im a big sucker for sweets....not all types tho. i don't like a lot of candy and etc. because my mouth is incredibly sensitive and i get canker sores easily. but like, baked goods and stuff? sign me UP
citrus: yes!! every day i wear a silver claddagh ring i got in galway and a watch based upon the biblical story of the tower of babel, from the unemployed philosopher's guild :3c
those are things i definitely wear every day, but generally i also wear a bow tie and a sweater or sweater vest, particularly now that it's fall
tysm for the ask!!! ♥♥♥
lavender n teatree? :^)
lavender: soft blankets and something casual and familiar to watch! snl skits on youtube, the office, seinfeld, etc. - anything that feels comforting. that plus a few comfort items and i start to feel better. 💕
tea tree: i always remember my dreams! last night i dreamt that my current love interest thought we were in a relationship & was wondering if i would be comfortable with them changing their shoes in front of me. i was like... "???? we're dating???? also since when are shoes controversial???" and i woke up very confused lmao
sadly we aren't dating but i still love them :(
thank you for the ask!! 💕✨
cinnamon and rosemary!
cinnamon: probably Christmas! i love all of the cultural / secular celebration, and as my interest in theology grows my appreciation for Christmas does too!! also Christmas trees Pretty....
rosemary: oh gosh...i don't know... we'll say that i have a very consistent sense of style!! im dapper and no one can deny that
tysm for the ask!! 💕💕
ppl asking for consent in non-sexual situations is....no pun intended...incredibly sexy
"do you mind if i grab your phone to look at it a little closer?"
"can i use this?"
"is it okay if i vent to you right now?"
small nasty things people do to lesbians that you need to realize aren't ok
there's more but the point here is that lesbians r uniquely mistreated in a lot of big ways and in a lot of small ones, some of which r listed here. im proud to be a lesbian and to my fellow lesbians: i love you. we deserve so much better. and if we don't get it naturally we will take it by force. we are gay and we are magnificent, and i wouldnt have it any other way.
hey you know something that's Good? when you hug a girl and then you separate but not fully, and your arms are still around her and your hands are resting gently on the softness of her hips and you can stare into her eyes and then you pull her waist to yours........
realizing that im nonbinary has been a very freeing experience and honestly im so grateful for the people who live their identities w such courage & grace
thank you to all the nb people who have shown me time & time again that i am allowed to exist and that my existence is beautiful